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The people who are not what they first seem to be.


 


In all walks of life the human race hides behind a veil of pretence. We all met them and even at times we perhaps ourselves have used this shield to prevent
others getting to close. For some it’s to hide a hurt a fear or even because
they find it hard to commit.


 


I myself at times feel that I am a people pleaser I don’t like to say No neither do I like to intentionally upset anyone. Paulo Coelho the other day mentioned
on a site that people who say maybe really want to say No but are afraid to
commit. I was not sure what I was afraid to commit to but often I don’t or
can’t really be bothered to do something and I end up doing it any way. Perhaps
it’s the case I should ask will this affect or have an impact if I do or don’t.


 


This point struck home with me that am probably why I have great respect and admiration not only for him as an author but as a man and mentor too.


 


I was going though some of my own thoughts in my head  I do this occasionally when a link strikes home and I came to the conclusion that some people will tell you anything to
get A. A reaction and B. If they feel by humouring you or pretending to be
interested in what your doing for self gain. If you’re naive you will think it’s
because you are making them think. Now the question here is you may find out
that really it was all talk.


 


Or even that a remark you made and you thought was true they had in fact lied or just left the information hoping you would not ask out right.


 


So my suggestion are don’t believe what you hear it can an often is watered down or even changed like Chinese whispers. 
Real friends you know deep down would not let you down.


 


Read the small print lots of us get caught out by the gift of the gab. The free gift which is not really free Along with the promise of better things to come if you
invest now...


 


If someone you just met asks to borrow money remember your old grannies say never a lender or borrower be.


 


Trust you gut it never really lets you down.


 


Don’t rush to do something you’re not sure about unhappy about the result or you would be worried if it turned out bad.


 


Now to end this on a positive note you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a real prince. That real friends are measure by not what can do for them but what
they do for you with out asking. And you can’t make a silk purse out of a sours
ear.


 


Annielise Stone 15/6/10

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Gosh that is so true, i've learned the hard way. xx
Short and sweet version
A friend is someone who has not yet stabbed you in the back. Then usual done in colusion with someone
John,

They say two wrongs dont make it right but two rights dont make it wrong either. I understand that at times we are all susceptible. Your in find this it can have more than one reaction. Pay back or wonder how many were part of the orginal game. Your first thought often is of sadness followed by madness followed by revenge.
The word I will offer to you is acknowledge the hurt acknowledge that you feel betrayed and also that your angry and frustrated. Try not to let it eat you up for in the end something you cant have control over or change.

Learn from the lesson. but dont treat everyone with the same coin. Remember we are all human and we have flaws we do hurt each other and we do prentend not too.
Part of a Patience strong verse which I learn by heart
went however hurt your feeling hide the secret scar time will bring its healing see things as they are.
TRY to be forgiving loving more not LESS life is meant for living and for happiness.
May be someone some where is feeling sorry to long for a whisper or word from you.
It was time for you to move on and you already had your doubts but chose not to recongise the signs
Things will change and its been a long time coming. You have more allies than your first thought. Annielise
Thank you for kind words, but all my life I have always tried to help people and it is has never been reciprocated. Infact the last 3 years has proved that everyone can in turn have an evil side to turn even try to destroy people for personal gain and so call love. Everyday I await to see what is coming or who has now  reneiged on their word or promise to be fair open an above all to be honest and true to their word. All those you have helped in the past give support by word only. I know all this sounds like poor me, but what has been done to me and my family over the three years has destroyed my life health and most of all my faith in humanity. I sit here contiplating how I will get through life with a new baby onthe way in 6 weeks with all what is going on when I see nothing but a black hole and no way out. I know everyone will say it will be a blessing but onto of what we have  already got to cope with it is one more worry for me to cope withJohn
Ok I understand that your having life very hard at the moment and it has been shall we say challenging for a good while. Whilst you feel the world and its army is against you and that when the pants are down you realise who you can really count on. First and formost yourself. Your allowed a bit of self pity and also feeling that you feel its about time the tide turn. An old saying is that they dont give you nothing you cant handle. And true you have had your share and half of the otherside of world too.
You have suffered in many ways shapes and forms. It has left you feeling that why should you bother or even try any more. The simple and only answer is that it in your make up however you think you wont help others and your sick and tired of the hangers on and the empty bag promises your own self pride and determination will see you through. Yes a new life on the scene in a few weeks will be late so probably near a couple of months. Female energy also coming from you too so what ever your feelings of worry and loss the look of the new life will give you the strength and encouragement to keep at it.
Change is on the horzion a person who owes you a favour or a promise will be fulfied. It will take a good year to 18 months but you will tune things around and start to realise that you have lived and you have surrived. Try to hang in and let go of the anger and frustration try to affirm positve traits or requirements also be prepared to do something different or out of the box.
Get up and start all over again. Annielise
ha like that message is quiet good, its funny how live is.
When i think about it now where have all my so called friends gone, was i so silly to think that they where my friends , why i was doing thing for them, driving them about, helping them. going to them in there time or need, having cold dinners, my family moaning about me always being out.
How could have i been so silly thinking they are my friends, why is it that people do this, i dont know, why did my husband get angry, when he said i though she was your friend and look what she did to you.
The thing is in this life we live and learn, i was never thinking at the time that i am doing this and that for this person or that, i just looked at it that i was there when they needed me, but who was there for me no i did not think that.
I am older and more wiser, i may not be here for long, i can not help how i feel, or that if some one needs help i can not help myself but help, i am no push over, in fact people see me as strong, i never say any thing to hurt people, and no i am not an angel.
I am me and what you see is what you get.
But this can not be said for ever one, please do not judge a book by its cover they say. and this is quiet true, i meet people all smiles, laughing and seem to be a do good softed person , but when they have what they want and then they say things that other people think are true, naught naught.
A sheep in wolfs clothing they say, yes well there are a lot of them out there.
so please be careful, dont be affraid, live your life as you want and you will learn,
But please remember this what you see with me is what you get.
love , light and angel delight
to you all
xxxx
Thank u fir your advice and I hope to get throug it, However at a level now that we wait each day for a new attack on our lives and can't understand why having helped so many people. I really don't know how we especially me can do this for another 18 months
John I am not advising you as you put it I am suggesting other ways for you to take back your own power and control in your life. I would like you over view your thoughts just for 5 minutes yes ok I said its alright to have time to think why me and why is the world god and its army out to get me. The fact is deep down its not but you expect so your telling yourself and others it ok to put you down and attack. Rather than giving the ok to tell eveyone its ok to attack you it would be more productive to stop and work out the good things in your life.To build bridges you need to be able to be willing to accept other help. As a man who has spent all his life helping other it strikes me that you dont like taking and find it hard to accept the word "charity" do gooders and well meaning folk. This is not a put down neither is it critisum its an obseravtion. And now the big word you seem also to have a chip on your shoulder and an attiutude problem ok that over with and you have probably deleted the post even before you have reached the end try not too. Why because you are a decent bloke if a little angry and hurt.
I said things will turn around for you the 18 months I spoke of was of you being out of the woods and able to stand on your own feet. To reach this stage first I suggest that you look at expecting nice things done for you and accept that it will take sometime for you to turn around in your own mind the hurt and frustration that you are a giver who thought that it would just be given back. The intention of giving is not to expect something back if you do the first out ways the second. Nothing comes back the way you expect it but it comes back so if you giving the ok to attack you the attacks are coming watch your thoughts try to acknowledge the pain the anger and frustration and move on. When I wrote this post it was because what struck home for me was the fact that often I help other people with out thinking and then I find they are what they seem and when I needed something in return they were full of excuses. Yes it happens and part of that lesson is to recognise not to be so willing to jump in. It did not mean never ever do that again it meant be wiser. (Taken on trust ) is the word spirit just gave me you can only use what means you have at your disposal at any the time. If your fortunate to have second thoughts and can realise that the first decesion was not the best or the worst just a decesion. ( They dont give you nothing that you cant handle) and what dont kill you makes you stronger. Stronger wiser and better informed. Stop expecting the attack and plan a defence.You will win through let jus make the winning easier by reflexting the words of anger with the words of compassion and hope. Annielise
Hi Annilise

Thank you for your message, it must have taken you time to write it

i didnt delete it, havent been on the here for quite a while. so i just read it today. most of what you have written strikes a cord, trust is now an issue, i have been told to stop giving / helping and think of myself

I have never given to receive in any form, but what has returned on some occasions is pure evil,
I will try to take my power back, i am making changes hopefully for the better

i wish i could detail really what the true situation is but life is to short:-]

baby no over due and waiting

thanks john
Hi John,
Thanks for answering the post again and also taking the time to read it and NOT delete it. To be honest I replied to the post virtually as soon as I read you last remark. The information that presented it self came from a higher source and I was just the messengar.

You will be busy in the next few days I do believe your baby made a decesion to arrive if it has happened already I do feel it will be here by the latest Wed. I even feel it here already. I was give a femaie energy at the first post but as I looked at it again the mention of a Boy came out. But hey ho I have a 50% chance of getting it right.
I am on skype so if things get you down and want a chat I try to be an understanding ear.
Best wishes annielise
Hi Annielise

you got it right :-] 50%


is a girl arrived yesterday after 30 hours, came into the world via a late C section, all healthy 8lb 10oz Grace Anntoinette. mum and baby doing well home tomorrow


while i deal with my new arrival my buss is on its way down drain trying not to think of it at the moment

skype havent tried that yet, now using a mac
Congratulations to you both on arrival of your daughter Grace. Beatiful name and also she was born on a tuesday and that also stands for full of Grace. See sometimes we all question all sorts of things. Trust and belief does at times make us wobbly from direction. My original female energy came through and she arrived before today.
Not sure if mac is compatable with skype or not but as its a way of connecting with out costing the earth its a good way to talk. I use it a lot when I am talking to people in other parts of the world.
all the best annielise

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